Thanksgiving yesterday was spent much differently, but so much more less stressed and way less dirty dishes.
We started off the day with ordering 7 meals online from Bob Evans. We went to the "Big City" and delivered 2, then headed out of town to our daughter who is in quarantine with a total of 5 people. We placed a box (5 meals) and bag of extra food in the driveway, and then called her. She was ever so thankful, but still can't really taste food.
By the time we returned home, our 21 year-old was off work and we broke out our take out meal. I was literally back in my PJ's by then and we just hung out in the kitchen until we were all done eating.
Porch weather returned for a short bit, so we spent some time chatting on the porch too.
We had to stop at the grocery store for an extra pie, the day before Thanksgiving. Our 21 year-old daughter is constantly buying Christmas decor (which I told her "save your money")
Guess what she bought for me?
Camper ornaments. They are so cute and she insisted the tree needed them, as we are not putting up our bigger tree this year. We are using her tree that she put up (a bit smaller). I love them, but still told her she better be saving her money.
On Tuesday, the day before my Dad's funeral service, 3 of us went to town to take care of all of the last title/plates (deadline due to pandemic was Dec. 1st.).
We were at the title office, and I watched my daughter and husband walk back to the truck. I said, "uh, she has to go next door and get plates."
My husband looked at me and said, "your daughter is broke down on the highway (our 2 lane country highway). It was raining and we drove all the way back to her. Her car wasn't going anywhere. My husband and I pushed her car off the road, drove her home, gave her the keys to my car and she went to work.
We drove back to town (this is about a 25 minute drive), got the plates for the other daughter's car, went back home to get help to tow the car back home. When we got home, we saw transmission fluid all over the driveway. Ugh. We have yet to look at the issues and I'm praying the transmission isn't blown.
So, guess who is back to having no car again. I never even got to drive it again. Sigh.
Our family needs a break from all things bad.
Comments
-Your father is waiting for you to be reunited. "He goes and prepareth the way..." (this is as it should be. Think of the reunion you will have. Glorious!)
-You spent some quality time with your beloved. (it sounds nice and cozy. How often does that happen?)
-You enjoyed a Thanksgiving without having to dress up and clean up the mess before, during, and after. (huge blessing)
-You were able to safely blessed other with Thanksgiving meals. (In the current time of joblessness, food shortages, and political turmoil, you were still able to financially and physically do this)
-Your daughter is safe even though she was broke down, alone on cold, rainy night on a back country highway. (Anything could have happened to her in 25 minutes, but you were able to rescue her.)
-You found your transmission needs to be fixed without breaking down and leaving you stranded.(Been there, done that quite recently)
It looks a little different, doesn't it? All it takes is a change of perception.
It may not have been your ideal, smooth sailing Thanksgiving, but you managed everything quite well. I know you're tired of always putting out fires, as are we. Focusing on the blessings, at times, the only thing you can do besides living on the self pity pot. Remember! things could always be WORSE!